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Where you are going

The next year, five years, and the room at the end

Not a plan. Plans are for projects. This is about direction, which is quieter and matters more.

Answer these once a year and watch the direction change.

01

Write a normal Tuesday five years from now. Not the dream. The good ordinary.

The ordinary day is the real goal. The dream is just the poster.
02

What would you like to be known for among the twenty people who know you best?

Fame is for strangers. This is about the people in the room.
03

What would you regret not trying?

Regret is a surprisingly good planner, if you ask it early.
04

What is one thing you could start this month that your future self would thank you for?

Not a transformation. One thing.
05

What are you becoming, if you keep going exactly as you are?

The current path has a destination. Look at it honestly, without alarm.
06

Who do you want to become for the people who will need you?

Future you has people counting on them. Growing toward them is a kind of love.
07

What would you do in the next year if you were sure it would work?

Certainty is not coming. But the answer tells you what you want to risk.
08

What will you be glad you did this year, when December comes?

December is close. Answer it now and you can still make it true.
09

What do you want to learn before you are old?

Learning does not have to be useful. It just has to be wanted.
10

What would you like your eightieth birthday to feel like? Who is in the room?

Work backwards from the room and you will know what to protect.
11

What are you building that will outlast you, even a little?

A child, a garden, a habit in someone else, a thing with your name on it. All count.
12

Write to the person you will be on your next birthday.

Tell them what you are hoping for, and what you are afraid of. Seal it until the day.
13

If this year had a title, what would it be? And next year?

Naming a year gives it a direction.
14

What would you change if you believed you had plenty of time?

Hurry closes doors. See which ones open without it.